Pro Se Guide

How Long Does a Divorce Take?

An uncontested divorce typically takes 2-6 months from filing to final decree, while contested divorces can take 1-3 years. The timeline depends on your state's mandatory waiting period (ranging from 0 to 365 days), whether you and your spouse agree on all issues, court backlogs, and the complexity of your assets and custody situation.

Last updated: February 2026 • Reviewed by Divorce.law Legal Team

Uncontested vs. Contested: Timeline Comparison

Uncontested Divorce

2-6 months

Both spouses agree on all major issues including property division, custody, support, and debt allocation.

  • Minimal court appearances (often none)
  • Lower legal costs ($300-$1,500 typical)
  • Less emotional stress
  • Ideal for pro se divorce

Contested Divorce

1-3+ years

Spouses disagree on one or more major issues, requiring court intervention to resolve disputes.

  • Multiple court hearings required
  • Higher costs ($15,000-$50,000+ typical)
  • Discovery process adds months
  • May require expert witnesses

Step-by-Step Divorce Timeline

1

File the Petition

1-7 days

Complete and file divorce petition (complaint) with your local court. Pay filing fee or submit fee waiver request. This officially starts the legal process.

Documents needed: Marriage certificate, petition forms, financial declarations (some states)
2

Serve Your Spouse

1-30 days

Your spouse must be officially notified of the divorce. This can be done through personal service, certified mail (some states), or publication if spouse cannot be located.

Read our complete guide to serving divorce papers
3

Response Period

20-30 days

Your spouse has a set time to file a response (typically 20-30 days). If they don't respond, you may proceed with a default divorce. If they respond and disagree, the case becomes contested.

Tip: If your spouse agrees, they can sign a waiver of service and consent form to speed this up.
4

Mandatory Waiting Period

0-365 days

Many states require a waiting period before finalizing divorce. This "cooling off" period allows time for reconciliation or to ensure the decision is final.

No waiting period: Alaska, Idaho, Montana, Nevada, South Dakota, Washington
30 days: Arizona, Colorado, Georgia, Hawaii, New Mexico
60 days: California, Connecticut, Kansas, Michigan, Missouri, Oregon
90 days: Florida, Indiana, Maine, Nebraska, Ohio
365 days: Maryland (separation), North Carolina (separation)

5

Financial Disclosure

2-8 weeks

Both spouses must exchange financial information including income, assets, debts, and expenses. This is mandatory in most states, even for uncontested divorces.

See our financial disclosure checklist
6

Discovery & Negotiation

Contested Only: 3-12 months

If contested, both sides gather evidence through interrogatories, depositions, and document requests. Settlement negotiations or mediation may occur to resolve disputes without trial.

Note: Many courts require mediation before allowing a trial.
7

Final Hearing & Decree

1 day - 1 week

For uncontested cases, this may be a brief hearing or paperwork review. The judge signs the final divorce decree, officially ending the marriage. In some jurisdictions, no hearing is required for uncontested cases.

After the decree: Update your documents (driver's license, Social Security, bank accounts) and file certified copies for records.

Factors That Speed Up or Delay Divorce

Speed Up Your Divorce

  • Agree on all issues before filing
  • File complete, error-free paperwork
  • Have spouse waive formal service
  • Respond promptly to court requests
  • Use mediation for minor disagreements
  • File in a state with no waiting period

Common Delays

  • Disagreements on custody or property
  • Difficulty locating spouse for service
  • Missing or incomplete documents
  • Complex assets (businesses, pensions)
  • Court backlogs and scheduling delays
  • Spouse refuses to cooperate or respond

Waiting Periods by State

Waiting PeriodStates
No waiting periodAlaska, Idaho, Montana, Nevada, South Dakota, Washington
20 daysDelaware
30 daysArizona, Colorado, Georgia, Hawaii, New Mexico, Oklahoma, Wyoming
60 daysCalifornia, Connecticut, Illinois, Kansas, Michigan, Missouri, New York, Oregon, Pennsylvania, Texas, Utah, Wisconsin
90 daysFlorida, Indiana, Iowa, Maine, Minnesota, Nebraska, New Hampshire, Ohio, Tennessee
180 daysArkansas, Kentucky, Louisiana, New Jersey, Rhode Island, South Carolina, Vermont, Virginia, West Virginia
365 days (1 year separation)Maryland, North Carolina

Note: Waiting periods may differ for cases involving children, contested issues, or specific grounds for divorce. Check your state's specific requirements.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is the fastest state to get divorced in?

Nevada, Idaho, and Alaska have no mandatory waiting periods, allowing divorces to be finalized as soon as paperwork is processed (often 2-4 weeks for uncontested cases). However, you may need to meet residency requirements first. Nevada requires only 6 weeks of residency, making it popular for quick divorces.

Can I get divorced if my spouse won't sign the papers?

Yes. If your spouse refuses to sign or respond, you can pursue a "default divorce." After properly serving your spouse and waiting for the response deadline to pass, you can ask the court to proceed without their participation. The divorce will be granted based on the terms you requested.

Does the waiting period start when I file or when I serve my spouse?

This varies by state. In most states, the waiting period starts from the date of filing or the date your spouse is served (whichever is later). Some states start the clock when the response is filed. Check your state's specific rules to understand when your waiting period begins.

Can I remarry immediately after my divorce is final?

In most states, yes. Once the final divorce decree is signed, you're legally single and free to remarry. However, a few states (like Texas and Alabama) have a brief waiting period before remarriage. It's wise to wait until you have the certified final decree in hand before planning a new wedding.

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