NEW MEXICO DIVORCE GUIDE

How to File for Divorce in New Mexico
Without a Lawyer

Filing for divorce in New Mexico without an attorney costs $135-$155 in court fees. You must meet the residency requirement of 6 months in New Mexico. New Mexico is a community property state with a 30 days waiting period. An uncontested divorce typically takes 1-2 months. Victoria AI guides you through every step with New Mexico-specific instructions.

$135-$155
Filing Fee
30 days
Waiting Period
6 months in New Mexico
Residency
1-2 months
Timeline

Last updated: February 1, 2026 • Reviewed by Divorce.law Legal Team

New Mexico Divorce Requirements at a Glance

Filing Fee$135-$155 (Bernalillo County (Albuquerque): $155. Santa Fe County: $145. Fees are relatively low across New Mexico.)
Residency Requirement6 months in New Mexico
Waiting Period30 days
Property DivisionCommunity Property (50/50)
Grounds for DivorceIncompatibility (no-fault), Cruel and inhuman treatment, Adultery, Abandonment
No-Fault Only?No (fault grounds available)
Uncontested Timeline1-2 months
Contested Timeline6 months to 2+ years
Fee Waiver Available?Yes
~8,500
Divorces per year in New Mexico
~60%
Pro se filers
2-3 months (uncontested)
Average duration
$150
Median filing fee

New Mexico Residency Requirements

To file for divorce in New Mexico, you must meet the following residency requirement: 6 months in New Mexico.

At least one spouse must have been domiciled in New Mexico for at least 6 months before filing for dissolution of marriage.

Tip: Victoria AI can help you determine if you meet New Mexico's residency requirements and guide you through the documentation needed to prove residency.

How to File for Divorce in New Mexico: Step-by-Step

Follow these steps to file for divorce in New Mexico without an attorney. Victoria AI guides you through each step with state-specific instructions.

STEP 1

Meet Residency Requirements

At least one spouse must have been domiciled in New Mexico for at least 6 months before filing for dissolution of marriage.

STEP 2

Gather Required Forms

Download the official New Mexico divorce forms: Petition for Dissolution of Marriage, Summons, Domestic Relations Cover Sheet. All forms are available from the New Mexico courts website.

STEP 3

Complete Your Petition

Fill out the divorce petition (4-501 NMRA) with your information, grounds for divorce, and what you're requesting (property division, custody, support).

STEP 4

File with the Court

File your completed petition with the New Mexico court and pay the filing fee of $135-$155. Fee waivers are available if you qualify financially.

STEP 5

Serve Your Spouse

Properly serve your spouse with the divorce papers according to New Mexico rules. Options typically include sheriff service, process server, or certified mail with acknowledgment.

STEP 6

Complete Financial Disclosure

Exchange mandatory financial disclosure documents as required by New Mexico law. This typically includes income verification, tax returns, bank statements, and a sworn financial affidavit.

STEP 7

Wait for Response & Complete Waiting Period

New Mexico has a 30-day waiting period from the date of service on the respondent. For uncontested cases, this is typically the minimum timeline.

STEP 8

Finalize Your Divorce

Submit your final judgment to the court. For uncontested divorces in New Mexico, this typically takes 1-2 months. The court will issue your final divorce decree.

Required Forms for New Mexico Divorce

These are the primary forms you'll need to file for divorce in New Mexico. Victoria AI guides you through completing each form correctly.

Petition for Dissolution of Marriage

4-501 NMRA

Initiates divorce

Summons

4-206 NMRA

Notifies spouse

Domestic Relations Cover Sheet

4-218

Court administration

Final Decree of Dissolution

Court form

Final judgment

New Mexico Divorce Costs & Filing Fees

The filing fee to start a divorce in New Mexico is $135-$155. Bernalillo County (Albuquerque): $155. Santa Fe County: $145. Fees are relatively low across New Mexico.

Cost TypeAmount
Court Filing Fee$135-$155
Service of Process$50-$100 (varies by method)
Certified Copies$5-$25 per copy
Total DIY Uncontested$250-$1,000 (uncontested DIY)

Fee Waiver Available in New Mexico

If you cannot afford the filing fee, New Mexico offers fee waivers for qualifying individuals. You'll need to complete a fee waiver application demonstrating financial hardship. This typically requires showing income below a certain threshold (often 125-200% of federal poverty guidelines) or receiving public assistance benefits.

Victoria can help: Our AI guides you through the fee waiver application process and helps you gather the required documentation.

Serving Your Spouse in New Mexico

After filing your divorce petition in New Mexico, you must legally "serve" your spouse with the divorce papers. This ensures they receive official notice of the divorce and have an opportunity to respond.

Acceptable Methods of Service in New Mexico

Personal Service

A sheriff, constable, or private process server personally delivers the papers to your spouse. Most reliable method.

Certified Mail

Papers sent via certified mail with return receipt requested. Your spouse must sign to acknowledge receipt.

Acceptance of Service

Your spouse voluntarily signs an acknowledgment that they received the papers. Fastest and cheapest option if cooperative.

Service by Publication

If your spouse cannot be located, you may be able to publish notice in a newspaper. Requires court approval.

Important: Proof of Service

You must file proof of service with the court showing your spouse was properly served. Without valid proof of service, your divorce cannot proceed. New Mexico courts are strict about service requirements.

Property Division in New Mexico

Community Property State

New Mexico is a community property state.

New Mexico is a community property state. All property acquired during marriage is presumed to be community property owned 50/50 by both spouses and must be divided equally upon divorce.

Victoria's Financial Tools: Our AI-powered financial tools help you identify, categorize, and value marital assets. Victoria can help you understand how New Mexico law applies to your specific property.

Child Support in New Mexico

New Mexico uses the Income shares model per NMSA 40-4-11.1.

New Mexico uses income shares guidelines. Combined gross incomes of both parents determine the basic child support, allocated based on income percentages. Adjustments apply for custody time and expenses.

Spousal Support Factors in New Mexico

  • Duration of marriage
  • Age and health
  • Current and future earning capacity
  • Standard of living during marriage
  • Property division
  • Needs of the dependent spouse
  • Amount of property awarded

New Mexico Divorce Timeline: What to Expect

Understanding the timeline helps you plan and set realistic expectations for your New Mexico divorce.

Uncontested Divorce

1-2 months

When both spouses agree on all terms including property division, custody, and support. This is the fastest and least expensive option.

Contested Divorce

6 months to 2+ years

When spouses cannot agree and need court intervention to resolve disputes. Involves hearings, discovery, and potentially trial.

Typical New Mexico Divorce Timeline (Uncontested)

1

File Petition

Day 1 - Submit your divorce paperwork and pay the $135-$155 filing fee

2

Serve Your Spouse

Within 30 days - Ensure proper legal service of divorce papers

3

Response Period

20-30 days - Your spouse has time to file a response

4

Waiting Period

30 days - New Mexico has a 30-day waiting period from the date of service on the respondent. For uncontested cases, this is typically the minimum timeline.

5

Final Judgment

Court issues your final divorce decree

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What Makes New Mexico Divorce Unique

Community property state

Both fault and no-fault grounds

30-day waiting period

Relatively low filing fees

Domestic Relations Mediation available

Key New Mexico Divorce Laws

  • NMSA §40-4-1Grounds for Dissolution
  • NMSA §40-4-7Division of Property
  • NMSA §40-4-11.1Child Support Guidelines

New Mexico Divorce FAQ

Common questions about filing for divorce in New Mexico without an attorney.

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