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Life Insurance and Divorce in Virginia: 2026 Complete Guide

By Antonio G. Jimenez, Esq.Virginia14 min read

At a Glance

Residency requirement:
Under Virginia Code § 20-97, at least one spouse must have been an actual bona fide resident and domiciliary of Virginia for at least six months immediately before filing the divorce suit. The other spouse does not need to be a Virginia resident. Military members stationed in Virginia for six months are presumed to meet this requirement.
Filing fee:
$60–$60

As of July 2026. Reviewed every 3 months. Verify with your local clerk's office.

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In Virginia, a divorce decree automatically revokes a revocable life insurance beneficiary designation naming your former spouse under Va. Code § 20-111.1, effective for decrees entered on or after July 1, 1993. However, this state revocation is preempted by federal law for FEGLI, SGLI, and ERISA-governed plans, so those must be changed manually.

Key Facts: Divorce and Life Insurance in Virginia (2026)

FactVirginia Detail
Filing Fee$60–$95 per circuit court (as of May 2026; verify with your local clerk)
Waiting Period6 months (no minor children + signed agreement) or 12 months (minor children or no agreement)
Residency RequirementOne spouse a bona fide resident and domiciliary of Virginia for 6 months before filing (Va. Code § 20-97)
GroundsNo-fault (separation) or fault: adultery, cruelty, desertion, felony (Va. Code § 20-91)
Property Division TypeEquitable distribution (Va. Code § 20-107.3)
Beneficiary RevocationAutomatic for revocable state-law policies; NOT for FEGLI/SGLI/ERISA (Va. Code § 20-111.1)
Cash Value (permanent policies)Marital property subject to equitable distribution
Term PoliciesGenerally no cash value; not a divisible asset

Does Virginia Automatically Revoke a Life Insurance Beneficiary After Divorce?

Yes. Virginia automatically revokes a revocable life insurance beneficiary designation naming your ex-spouse the moment a divorce or annulment decree is entered, under Va. Code § 20-111.1, for all decrees entered on or after July 1, 1993. The revoked benefit is then paid as if the former spouse had predeceased the policyholder. This is the default rule for privately issued, state-governed policies.

The statute defines "death benefit" broadly. Under subsection B, it covers any payment under a life insurance contract, annuity, retirement arrangement, compensation agreement, or other contract that designates a beneficiary of a death benefit. This means the automatic revocation reaches most standard, privately purchased whole life and term policies that fall under Virginia law rather than a federal statute.

The revocation is not absolute. Two exceptions in subsection C preserve an ex-spouse's designation: (i) when the divorce decree or a written property settlement agreement specifically provides a contrary result for that death benefit, and (ii) when the death benefit is payable to or under a trust. If you and your spouse intend for a former spouse to remain the beneficiary, the designation must be affirmatively protected before the decree is entered, not merely left in place.

Because the beneficiary change on divorce Virginia rule is a default that can be overridden, careful drafting matters. A separation agreement that is silent leaves the automatic revocation in force, while an agreement that expressly names the former spouse controls over the statute.

When Does the Automatic Revocation NOT Apply? (Federal Preemption)

The Virginia automatic revocation does NOT apply to federally governed benefits, including Federal Employees' Group Life Insurance (FEGLI), Servicemembers' Group Life Insurance (SGLI), and employer plans governed by ERISA (the Employee Retirement Income Security Act of 1974). For these policies, federal law preempts Va. Code § 20-111.1, and the named beneficiary is paid regardless of the divorce.

The controlling authority is Hillman v. Maretta, 133 S. Ct. 1943 (2013). Warren Hillman named his then-wife, Judy Maretta, as the beneficiary of his FEGLI policy in December 1996. He later divorced, remarried, but never changed the designation. When he died, his ex-wife collected the FEGLI proceeds, and his widow sued under Va. Code § 20-111.1 to recover them. The U.S. Supreme Court held that the Federal Employees' Group Life Insurance Act (FEGLIA) preempts the Virginia statute, so the ex-wife kept the money.

Virginia added subsection D to Va. Code § 20-111.1 in 2007 (2007 Acts ch. 306) to create personal liability for a former spouse who receives a preempted benefit. But Hillman v. Maretta struck down even subsection D as applied to FEGLI, ruling that a designated federal beneficiary has the right to both receive and retain the proceeds. The practical lesson is direct: for any federal or ERISA policy, you must physically file a new beneficiary form with the plan administrator, because a Virginia decree cannot do it for you.

What Does the Required Divorce Decree Notice Say?

Every Virginia divorce or annulment decree entered on or after July 1, 2012 must contain a conspicuous, bold-print notice warning that beneficiary designations "may or may not be automatically revoked by operation of law" upon divorce, under subsection E of Va. Code § 20-111.1. This warning exists precisely because federal preemption makes the outcome uncertain for many policies.

The notice instructs each party that if they intend to revoke a beneficiary designation made payable to a former spouse, they are personally responsible for following the death benefit provider's instructions to change it. Otherwise, existing designations "may remain in full force and effect" after the final decree. The General Assembly added this requirement immediately after the 2012 Virginia Supreme Court ruling in the Maretta litigation to close the gap between the statute's automatic-revocation language and the reality of federal preemption.

Do not treat the decree notice as a substitute for action. The notice is a warning, not a mechanism. It confirms that Virginia will revoke a purely state-governed revocable designation but cannot reach FEGLI, SGLI, or ERISA plans. After your divorce is final, request updated beneficiary forms from every life insurer and plan administrator, complete them, and confirm the change in writing. This single administrative step avoids the exact outcome that cost the widow in Hillman v. Maretta the full policy proceeds.

Is the Cash Value of a Life Insurance Policy Marital Property in Virginia?

Yes. In Virginia, the cash value of a permanent (whole life or universal) life insurance policy accumulated during the marriage is marital property subject to equitable distribution under Va. Code § 20-107.3. Term life policies, which build no cash value, are generally not a divisible asset. Only the investment-portion cash value, not the death benefit itself, is divided.

Virginia is an equitable distribution state, meaning marital property is divided fairly but not necessarily 50/50. A court applying Va. Code § 20-107.3 first classifies the policy as separate, marital, or part-separate/part-marital, then assigns it a value. For a whole life policy, that value depends on how long premiums have been paid and how much cash value has accrued. A policy purchased with marital funds during the marriage is presumptively marital, while one bought before marriage or with separate funds may be classified as separate property or a hybrid.

The court has flexible remedies for life insurance policy division. Under Va. Code § 20-107.3, a judge can award the entire policy to the insured spouse and order a monetary award to the other spouse equal to their equitable share of the cash value. This avoids surrendering the policy or triggering tax consequences from cashing it out. The 11 statutory factors, including each spouse's monetary and non-monetary contributions and the duration of the marriage, guide how the cash value life insurance divorce split is calculated.

Can a Virginia Court Order Life Insurance to Secure Child Support?

Yes. A Virginia court can order a parent to maintain existing life insurance and name the children as beneficiaries to secure a child support obligation, under Va. Code § 20-108.1. The order lasts only as long as the parent has a statutory duty to pay child support, and the cost of that coverage is factored into the child support calculation.

This authority applies in any proceeding under Title 20, Title 16.1, or Title 63.2 that determines child support. The statute lets a court require the paying parent to (i) maintain a policy on either party's life, provided the ordered party controls the beneficiary designation, and (ii) designate the child or children as beneficiary of all or part of that coverage. The life insurance child support tool protects children financially if the paying parent dies before the support obligation ends.

The premium cost is not ignored in the support math. When calculating support, Va. Code § 20-108.1 treats court-ordered direct payments for maintaining life insurance coverage as a relevant factor, alongside education expenses and other court-ordered direct payments for the child's benefit. Because a child support obligation in Virginia typically continues until a child turns 18 (or 19 if still in high school full-time and living at home), the life insurance requirement is generally time-limited to that window rather than permanent.

Can a Virginia Court Order Life Insurance to Secure Spousal Support?

Yes. When a Virginia court enters a spousal support order, it may require the paying spouse to maintain an existing life insurance policy that secures that support, under Va. Code § 20-107.1:1. The policy must have been purchased during the marriage, issued through the insured's employment, or within the insured's effective control, and the recipient must have an insurable interest.

Several conditions limit this power. The ordered spouse must have the right to designate a beneficiary, and the support recipient must have been designated as a beneficiary during the marriage. The court weighs the age, health, and insurability of the insured spouse before imposing the requirement, because ordering a new or uninsurable person to obtain coverage is impractical. This statute is the exclusive route for compelling life insurance tied to spousal support in Virginia.

Spousal support life insurance orders are modifiable. Under Va. Code § 20-107.1:1, either party can move to modify the order upon a material change of circumstances, including a change in the payor spouse's marital status. Separately, Va. Code § 20-107.3 confirms that a court may order an irrevocable-beneficiary designation for survivor benefits or annuities, but not for a life insurance policy except to the extent permitted by Va. Code § 20-107.1:1. This narrow carve-out reflects the legislature's intent to treat life insurance beneficiary orders as a support-security device, not a general property remedy.

Term vs. Permanent Life Insurance in a Virginia Divorce

The divorce treatment of a life insurance policy in Virginia depends heavily on its type. Permanent policies (whole life, universal life) carry cash value that is divisible marital property under Va. Code § 20-107.3, while term policies carry no cash value and are typically treated only as a support-security tool, not a divisible asset. The table below summarizes the practical differences.

FeatureTerm Life PolicyPermanent (Whole/Universal) Policy
Cash ValueNoneAccrues over time
Marital Asset in DivisionGenerally not divisibleCash value divisible under § 20-107.3
Common Use in DivorceSecuring child/spousal supportBoth an asset to divide and support security
Beneficiary Auto-RevocationApplies under § 20-111.1 (if state-governed)Applies under § 20-111.1 (if state-governed)
Federal Preemption RiskYes, if FEGLI/SGLI/ERISA group termYes, if employer-group ERISA plan
Valuation MethodN/A (no cash value)Surrender value based on premiums paid

Understanding this distinction prevents costly mistakes. A spouse who assumes a group term life insurance policy through work will be automatically reassigned by the divorce decree may be wrong if that policy is ERISA-governed, because federal preemption controls. Conversely, a spouse who overlooks the cash value in a decades-old whole life policy may forfeit a meaningful marital asset. Always identify each policy's type and its governing law before settling.

Practical Steps to Protect Yourself After a Virginia Divorce

After a Virginia divorce is final, immediately update every beneficiary designation manually, because Va. Code § 20-111.1 cannot revoke designations on FEGLI, SGLI, or ERISA-governed plans. Waiting exposes you to the outcome in Hillman v. Maretta, where an unchanged federal beneficiary form sent the full policy proceeds to an ex-spouse instead of the surviving widow.

Take these concrete actions in the weeks following your decree:

  • Request updated beneficiary forms from every life insurer, retirement plan, and annuity provider you hold.
  • Confirm in writing which of your policies are federal (FEGLI, SGLI) or ERISA-governed employer plans, since those override the Virginia auto-revocation.
  • Review your property settlement agreement to see whether it requires you to maintain any policy for child or spousal support under Va. Code § 20-108.1 or Va. Code § 20-107.1:1.
  • Verify that any court-ordered coverage naming your children or ex-spouse remains in force and that premiums are current.
  • Coordinate your beneficiary changes with your broader estate plan, including your will and any trusts.

Divorce.law is a legal-information and attorney-routing platform, not a law firm, and this guide does not constitute legal advice or create an attorney-client relationship. Life insurance and divorce questions frequently involve federal preemption and fact-specific valuation issues that a licensed Virginia family law attorney should review for your situation.

Frequently Asked Questions

Does divorce automatically remove my ex-spouse as my life insurance beneficiary in Virginia?

Yes, for state-governed revocable policies. Under Va. Code § 20-111.1, a divorce decree entered on or after July 1, 1993 automatically revokes an ex-spouse's beneficiary designation, and the benefit is paid as if the ex-spouse predeceased you. This does not apply to FEGLI, SGLI, or ERISA plans.

Why did the Supreme Court let an ex-wife keep FEGLI proceeds in Hillman v. Maretta?

In Hillman v. Maretta, 133 S. Ct. 1943 (2013), the U.S. Supreme Court held that the federal FEGLIA statute preempts Va. Code § 20-111.1. Because federal law gives the named beneficiary the right to receive and retain the proceeds, the ex-wife kept the full amount despite the Virginia auto-revocation rule.

Is the cash value of my whole life policy split in a Virginia divorce?

Yes. The cash value of a permanent life insurance policy built during the marriage is marital property under Va. Code § 20-107.3 and is divided by equitable distribution. Term policies have no cash value and are generally not divisible. Only the investment cash value, not the death benefit, is split.

Can a Virginia court make my ex maintain life insurance for our kids?

Yes. Under Va. Code § 20-108.1, a court can order a parent to maintain existing life insurance naming the children as beneficiaries to secure child support. The obligation lasts only while the statutory child support duty continues, and the premium cost is factored into the support calculation.

Can a court order life insurance to protect my spousal support?

Yes. Under Va. Code § 20-107.1:1, a court may order the paying spouse to maintain an existing policy purchased during the marriage or through employment, provided you were designated a beneficiary during the marriage and have an insurable interest. The order is modifiable upon a material change of circumstances.

How much does it cost to file for divorce in Virginia in 2026?

Circuit court filing fees range from $60 to $95 depending on the county, plus roughly $12 per document for sheriff service, as of May 2026. Verify with your local clerk. Virginia does not charge fees for counterclaims or responsive pleadings, and fee waivers exist for households at or below 125% of federal poverty guidelines.

What is the residency requirement to file for divorce in Virginia?

At least one spouse must be a bona fide resident and domiciliary of Virginia for six months immediately before filing, under Va. Code § 20-97. This requirement is jurisdictional and cannot be waived. The other spouse need not be a Virginia resident, and military members stationed in Virginia for six months qualify.

How long is the waiting period for a Virginia no-fault divorce?

Under Va. Code § 20-91, the separation period is six months if you have no minor children and have signed a separation agreement, or twelve months if you have minor children or no written agreement. A 2025 Virginia Supreme Court decision confirmed intent to separate permanently must last the entire statutory period.

Should I name a trust instead of my children directly on my life insurance?

Often yes. Under Va. Code § 20-111.1(C), death benefits payable to a trust are exempt from automatic revocation, and a trust lets you control how minor children receive funds. Because Virginia auto-revokes direct ex-spouse designations but not trust designations, coordinate this choice with a Virginia estate planning attorney.

Do I still need to change beneficiaries if my decree contains the revocation notice?

Yes. The bold-print notice required by Va. Code § 20-111.1(E) is a warning, not an action. It confirms that designations may or may not be revoked because federal preemption applies to FEGLI, SGLI, and ERISA plans. You remain personally responsible for filing new beneficiary forms with each provider.

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Written By

Antonio G. Jimenez, Esq.

Florida Bar No. 21022 | Covering Virginia divorce law

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